姨妈的辛酸人生
2012年1 月26
好多年没回老家看看姨妈了。虽然每年回国，都会见到姨妈，给她一些生活上的帮助，但是一直想去看看她如今自己的小家。本打算我自己去给她拜年，可父母不放心，成年的我在他们眼里仍是孩子，推辞不过，只好随他们一同去了。
姨妈长我母亲两岁，和我母亲一样，很小便失去了父爱，由外婆一人独自抚养。小时候家里虽不算富裕，外婆还是想方设法，让她和我母亲上了几年私塾。虽然识字不多，但一直向我们夸耀，她的墨笔字写得好。后来兵荒马乱，家道衰落，很小开始就和外婆一道，为生计操劳，奔波于兵荒马乱之中。那时我母亲寄居在武汉她表姑家，遇上解放，参加了工作。姨妈和外婆则由于种种原因，选择了回到乡下。
人生大概也就这么变了。姨妈这一回乡，便再也没能出来。听母亲说，她回家不久，很年轻便结婚了。不幸的是，丈夫得了结核，没两年便去世了。后来遇上我姨父，又组建了家庭，还怀了小孩。农村医疗条件极差，小孩难产，没保住，大人也因大出血，几乎丧命。最终大人还是活下来了，可留下后遗症。不仅丧失了生育能力，还有小便失禁。
幸好姨父和去世的前妻有个孩子，便是我表哥。姨父会泥瓦匠的手艺，虽不像现在的包工头那么富裕，在当年的农村，生活也算不错的。他带了一群徒弟，也是常年在外打工，到年底才回来。好像那时也是包工程，年终回来，除去开销，分给徒弟，交給队里的，剩下的也就够过年的了。他盖了一辈子的砖瓦房，自己住的却是土坯草棚，直到晚年，才和表哥一起盖了栋小楼。
母亲说，我们小的时候，她到我家带过我们，可我太小，一点记忆都没有。只记得小时在外婆家，不时去趟姨妈那儿。姨妈大病之后，体质弱了，性情也变得很差，对我们很好，可和姨父吵架很多，而且特别伤感，抱怨。尽管她那儿吃喝条件比外婆那儿强，可小时候的我总不愿多住，害怕他们吵架，更不知如何应付姨妈的哭泣。
后来表哥跟着姨父学了手艺，自己也开始带徒弟出去包工程。姨父却不小心摔了，股骨颈骨折。现在看来是很普遍的骨折，在当地农村医院却没有得到合适的治疗。手术后除了疼痛，腿还短了很多，走路跛步，完全丧失了劳动能力，几年后便去世了。表哥不久后也患上了肝病，四处求医也没能维持几年，留下五个孩子，撒手而去。
接连的不幸，对姨妈的打击可想而知，但她毕竟还是挺过来了，而且还和儿媳一起，把五个孙子，孙女抚养成人。等到她年近八十了，孩子们都出门打工，家里也只剩她自己了。体弱病残，孤苦伶仃，百般无奈。除了不时到我父母这儿串串门，我们能做的，也只能是在经济上帮助一些。前两年我父母给她安了部电话，能和外界联系，好了一些。现在，几乎每天都要和我母亲通话。这几年，体质也差了，有过一次中风，遗下半侧面瘫和腿脚不利索。毕竟已是八十多岁的老人了。
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- Singapore
Timely arrival, replaced prior Air Monarch, new, happy with purchase
- Switzerland
Husband says this is the most comfortable sneaker he's ever worn. Loves them!!!!
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My husband loves these sneakers and allows me to buy at a good price,will buy again
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These are the the most comfortable shoes and my second pair of this particlar model. I wore the first out.
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I ordered these for my husband who needed black shoes for work. He says they are very comfortable and fit perfectly!
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I love the Air Monarch 4, especially now that it doesn't seem to have the squeeking problem that plagued them before. Very comfortable.
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These are exactly as described. The 4E means extra wide, but 3E was not available so I went for these.I now have a fresh bounce in my air step.Best Regards,
- Switzerland
I work at a jail and these are great. This was my 3rd pair. They last about a year. Next time i'm going to get 2 and rotate them to increase cusion life.Good for big feet.
- Singapore
I purchased this for my son and he loves them. He wants another pair in a different color but although the price was right, I'm a disabled single mother on a limited income so these were a humongous splurge but he deserves it.
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2024-01-12 08:58:02--
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2024-01-12 08:56:43--
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2024-01-12 08:55:09--
The big brand is trustworthy, the workmanship is very good, and the design is very good. The sound quality and effect are very comfortable. Very good endurance. It took a long time to recharge the battery. Very satisfied shopping
2024-01-12 08:52:32--
the order came quickly, the sneakers were packaged in a bag, there is no smell, the quality is 4-, and even the size 9 women turned out to be larger in size
2024-01-12 08:51:07--
I ordered a pair I did not receive the right pair (another color) ... The shoe box and all deformed even the pairs took a form of the card ... the seller does not help his Customers (I am a big buyers) he asks me to delete my 1st comment for a reduction at $ 5 when I just lost $ 50. In short take the leaks!
2024-01-12 08:50:24--
shoes ran extremely large, stitching was off on several letters and saw glue at every seam
2024-01-12 08:50:06--
Good quality for the price your paying
2024-01-12 08:47:39--
Very nice boots. Thank you!
2024-01-12 08:46:12--
All items finally came holidays caused major delays
2024-01-04 19:04:38--
These shoes look good and comfortable to wear. They are very worth buying. I recommend them.
2024-01-04 19:00:21--
i love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
2024-01-04 18:59:14--
Fast shipping within 2 weeks and shoes looking good tho
2024-01-04 18:57:37--
Perfect, for the price they are very good.
The shipment was super fast, in less than a month I had them at home.
I recommend the seller.
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2024-01-04 18:55:48--
I ordered a size up for my daughter and this pair is to small for her like the last pair I ordered. Our first order was perfect🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
2024-01-04 18:55:45--
I ordered these shoes about two months ago. Other shipments for shoes at the same time came a month ago. The shoes have blemishes on them. They look like theyamp;apos;ve possibly been tried on previously. They were not bubble wrapped so Iamp;apos;m sure some of the scuffing was due to shipping. I wish more care was taken into packing the item prior to shipment.
2024-01-04 18:55:10--
The shoe design is fine. But when I received the item it was very large. I can not fit these shoes at all they look like they are 3 sizes to big.
2024-01-04 18:52:18--
attention is necessary as a box costs the postage.But the packing is careful, and t is satisfied with quality.
2024-01-04 18:43:47--
Good quality, came fairly quickly, would buy again
2024-01-04 18:42:59--
Nice quality. Compares very well to my store bought ones. 2.5 weeks shipping time to United States. Definitely recommend this seller. Shoe strings were black instead of white is the only difference.
2024-01-04 18:38:23--
they are great. thank you!!
2024-01-04 18:38:21--
Good quality. Would buy again.
2024-01-04 18:35:51--
Very good quality. Item exactly as described
2024-01-04 18:34:24--
Shipping was extremely fast. The foam runners are great. My son loves them
2024-01-04 18:34:01--
Size up one. These run just a little small. So if you’re a size 8 I’d say buy a size 9. Other than that. These are perfect 1:1
2024-01-04 18:33:22--
What can I say this is the 5th pair I've bought from this seller, he's amazing, he exceeds any expectations if you look for good shoes in this store...they are comfortable and very communicative and pay attention to his clients he never gives you a bad attitude.. i am in love and more than happy i will always buy from him, because he is amazing God bless their work.. i am lucky to find them, so can you say when you buy from them i will definitely keep buying my family is buying and i will keep recommending to my friends.. awesome
2024-01-04 09:23:00--
Very nice, very satisfied with a bag
2024-01-04 09:21:44--
Sunglasses are beautiful in style, very satisfied, comfortable to wear, good overall, classy.
2024-01-04 09:18:01--
I was pretty pleased with them for the price
2024-01-04 09:17:53--
it would have been wonderful if it came with a box
2024-01-04 09:15:49--
better than in the photo
2024-01-04 09:12:20--
All good, arrived in 3 weeks.
2024-01-04 09:12:17--
Great Shoes will buy again!!!
2024-01-04 09:05:44--
Well, this is the real deal. Top quality will make you happy.
2024-01-04 09:05:30--
Best delivery time on this website, very high quality. I refer my friends here, highly recommend.
2024-01-04 09:04:57--
Absolutely stunning, I cannot take my eyes off of it!!! Took a very short time to arrive and has every detail that the authentic bracelet has. Will be ordering another color as well!!
2024-01-04 09:02:09--
All looks spot onn
2024-01-04 08:57:18--
This earphone is very good. I bought it only after being recommended by friends around me, but I didn't expect it to work so well! And noise reduction
2024-01-04 08:57:01--
After installation, it really fits, there is no gap, the bottom hole position is accurate, and the speaker hole charging hole can be aligned, which is quite convenient to use.
2024-01-04 00:06:29--
Beautiful copy.
2024-01-04 00:06:17--
Beautiful my bag is the 3 bag I buy, I recommend it
2024-01-04 00:04:37--
Bag looks fake for sure but good for price
2024-01-04 00:04:24--
Good quality. Picture is lighter than what I received.
2024-01-04 00:02:39--
Item is very nice and arrived as pictured. Packaging looks very nice and authentic.
2024-01-04 00:01:17--
Both awesome MK backpacks :) came in time before my Moms Bday :) so gonna give it 5 stars ! The leather didn’t smell bad , the backpacks design came beautiful . Got two brown ones and they are both awesome . The only small thing I found was that one of the metal zippers was a little scratched maybe the size of an eyelash but I’m just knit picking . Other than that I recommend this seller . Both MK backpacks 5 stars :)
2024-01-04 00:00:21--
The packaging is intact and undamaged. After opening, the size is suitable, the style is very popular, and the price is very high.
2024-01-03 23:56:46--
Quality product. Super fast shipping.
2024-01-03 23:56:03--
Everything came out perfect details are on point
2024-01-03 23:54:05--
Like the Original One.
The logo was a bit Scratchy but overall rating is very Good !
2024-01-03 23:53:31--
Shipping was 2 months. Bag actually larger then I thought it’s nice. I’m satisfied
2024-01-03 23:53:22--
Good value! Not sure how it looks compared to a real one but this is a nice replica for the price. Thanks!
2024-01-03 23:50:14--
OBSESSED with this bag and travel pouch! Both my co workers have real**never fills and you can BARELY tell any difference at all! Definitely recommend this product and seller. Took only 3 weeks to receive item.
2024-01-03 23:49:43--
Ordered Sept 15th and received today October 15th. Exactly a month. It was well worth the wait. It met my expectations and is beautiful. It came well protected in the packaging. Does not come in a box but in a plastic. That's ok. I placed towels inside of the bag to remove the creases. I will leave it in overnight. It Does not take away from the look of the bag. The inside is dark red even though it looks pink in my photos. The details are spot on and its spacious. I have no complaints. Dont hesitate on buying. The pictures dont do it any justice. Looks way more than $30. I will be reordering different designs with this seller. My tracking information was accurate as well.
2024-01-03 23:49:06--
Great Jersey, can’t wait for football season
2024-01-03 23:47:52--
Perfection! Love it
2024-01-03 23:47:18--
I could not believe how close it is to my real chanel bag..happy days shopping now at a fraction of the cost and no one any the wiser !
2024-01-03 23:45:54--
Ring made very well, I have a white gold bzero logically compared to the differences, the original B0 has a sort of "spring" as the gas tube concept this does not move, but in the complex it makes its good impression!
2024-01-03 23:27:26--
looks very good
2024-01-03 23:27:02--
Ring is beautiful 🤩
2024-01-02 02:31:20--
nice package lable and box papers match
2024-01-01 00:49:20--
Arrived well packed, in decent time, and the exact sizes I requested. Thank you.
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